Families seem to work in a pattern. Sometimes we think we can't break this patter. Kind of like we are stuck in a never ending cycle. This is NOT true. We are stronger than we think. I know from personal experience that I can break the cycle and create a better future for my family. I didn't grow up with a good mother figure. I saw myself taking on the role of the mother in my household. Now that I am an adult and preparing myself for the future, I have taken the opportunity to look at other people's families. Doing this helps me get a better understanding on what kind of family I want to have. I know that no one has a perfect family, but there are families out there that work. I want my family to be one of those. I not only look at these other families, I also study the principles behind the family. Knowing the things that can help a family succeed will be beneficial in the future. So if you are feeling discouraged by the way your family is, don't give up hope. You can make a better future for yourself!