In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints we believe gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose. For people who struggle with this kind of identity, they should just look for guidance. We all go through trials in this life and I believe that same sex attraction is one of the trials people go through. Like any trial it takes time and patience and people around you to support you through it all to get through it. I know many people don't see it this way because they don't want to change or see it as a trial or something to overcome. The way we perceive things has a lot to do with how we react to them. We don't need to feel broken or different when we go through trials like same sex attraction. We are all beloved spirit sons and daughters of heavenly parents. We are loved even when we think we are not and we can overcome any obstacle that stands in our way.